whotheheckami | Puzzled

Someone said something to me in a conversation this evening that hurt me deeply and I told them so. However, their comment may have been true and so I need to do some self-examination. This means that I'll probably not be posting for a while, but I would welcome your help with the following questions:

Do I flirt too much on LJ?
Does it irritate you?
Should I stop?
Do I annoy you with comments that I may perceive to be funny, but which are hurtful to you?
What else do I do which irritates you?
Should I change the way I behave on LJ to suit the wishes of others?

Thanks

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